Loss & Grief

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When we lose a loved one we are mostly overcome by sorrow, pain, fear and grief. How to deal with this? How to go on with your life? Why him, why her? All these question and emotions rumble through your head and we are all over the place. Time goes by, everything moves on. What can you do? How can you deal with your feelings? How can you go on when deep inside all you want to do is stay in the moment. How can others move on while I can’t? What if I move on and I forget? Grief is terrible thing, it can eat you up alive. One way to deal with it, is to try and redefine this grief. Why do I feel this? It is because I loved. It is because I received love back. It is because I have such great memories with this person together. They say grief is a sign that you loved dearly. It comes in waves and can break you down when you least expect. And there are better days, when you realize there is more to life… but one thing is for sure.. once it’s there, it never leaves. And even though life will never be the same, you also know … you must move on and you find a way to do so….

This one is dedicated to everybody who has lost loved ones, including myself.

Love

Anjani

One response to “Loss & Grief”

  1. So beautifully said An…. We can find comfort in knowing that maybe the greater the love the greater the pain. So also be thankful for the experience of having known such a deep love. Thank you for this blog. X

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